I celebrated my birthday and Mother’s Day this past weekend, creating reflective moments. I want to share three lessons that have motivated me or helped me grow over the last year.
Being tired is not a sign of weaknessIt’s a sign that I need to reflect on where I am spending my energy…understanding that I need to rest, recharge, and refocus when necessary. I am not a superwoman. In the words of Andy Mineo, “I don’t do the most, but I do a lot.”
Embrace every birthday..that’s added wisdomI have been excited about my birthday every year since I was a kid. I used to worry about being too old or looking my age, but lately, I have realized that each year provides more opportunities to grow in wisdom. Who doesn’t want to be wise?
Your opinion is your opinionI used to frustrate myself trying to convince people to see my point. Now, I realize that I don’t have to be correct, that I don’t have to argue for you to see my point, and that you are entitled to your opinion and thoughts. It is not my responsibility to persuade you otherwise. I will advise or comment, and you decide how to react. I will be at peace either way.
I see each year as an opportunity to embrace my birthday positively and reflect on growth. Let me know if any of the three lessons resonate with you.